A personal reflection on creating art that examines traditional male roles in the modern family
Finding Inspiration in Tradition
When I first began working on my painting "The Protector" I embarked on a journey excavating something primordial. As the mother of two young boys I am fascinated with how male identity has been shaped across millennia, from cave dwellings to contemporary homes.
The geometric shelter form that dominates the composition wasn't initially planned. It materialised as I contemplated my father's unwavering presence in our family—strong yet nurturing, a human fortress against life's uncertainties. His generation rarely discussed the emotional weight of their protective roles, yet they carried them with a quiet dignity that's become increasingly rare.
Balancing Tradition and Evolution, in Acrylic Paint
Working with a special type of acrylic, called acrylic gouache, allowed me to build the smooth layers and precise contours, typical for the Undercurrent Series. I feel that removing texture like brush strokes and impasto while focusing on breaking down the form into shapes, helps mirror the complexity of modern relationships and by extension modern masculinity. Each interconnected shape represents the tension between ancient imperatives and contemporary realities. The translucent quality of certain sections symbolises how traditional male and female roles are becoming more fluid in today's partnerships, while they were more transparent before.
The metal leaf elements in this piece aren’t decoration. Unlike my Dancers Series, which are inherently intuitive, the paintings in the Undercurrents are thought through and deliberate every step of the way. As I applied each delicate sheet, sometimes carefully and sometimes just using leftover gold flakes to create some texture and warmth, I reflected on how protection often requires both strength and tremendous vulnerability, like precious metal, which is often associated with security and protection, that can both shimmer and tarnish. This duality fascinated me throughout the creative process.
"In my acrylic painting, 'The Protector,' I explore the intricate dynamics of the traditional male role within the family structure, focusing on the delicate balance of being a lover, provider and a protector. This painting is a visual exploration of these age-old expectations that have defined men since the time of the cavemen."
Beyond Physical Protection
Protection, of course, transcends the physical. The architectural elements in the composition represent not just shelter for bodies, but sanctuary for hearts and minds. The negative spaces are just as important as the defined structures, symbolising that sometimes protection means making space rather than filling it.
I spent weeks refining the central figures’ posture, seeking that perfect balance between strength and tenderness. There were moments in my studio when I'd step back and even walk away from the painting for a few days and even weeks. I questioned myself:
As a woman, what makes me feel protected?
And it is not just his presence, or the money, or ‘him’ being a good father. Though these things help. They make him ‘a provider’. A protector is something more. It is when you know that someone will stand by you, regardless of your choices. Perhaps even despite them.
Redefining Protection in Partnership
Creating "The Protector" coincided with significant changes in my personal relationships. As I worked, I found myself questioning long-held assumptions about gendered and non-gendered roles. The painting became a conversation with myself about how I bring up my own sons and what role women play in the upbringing and behaviour of men.
The blue-grey tones that dominate portions of the work represent the emotional intelligence increasingly recognised as essential to true protection. Meanwhile, the earthy red colours and the gold ground the composition in our biological heritage - a reminder that while roles evolve, when it comes to romantic relationships human needs remain constant.
Finding Universal Connection
Though "The Protector" emerged from personal reflection, its themes have resonated with viewers across diverse backgrounds. At exhibitions, I've been moved by conversations with people who recognise the sentiment of this artwork.
The painting doesn't provide answers about how we should define protection in contemporary relationships. Rather it opens a subtle space for the necessary questions we as society have been avoiding for a while.
What does protection mean in your relationships? How have traditional roles shifted in your experience?
I'd love to hear your thoughts on "The Protector" and the evolving nature of care and responsibility in our modern world.
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